Friday, July 31, 2009

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I am hoping this new blog style will be easier to read and that I can actually format it with paragraphs, etc. Still not sure what I'm doing and using an unfamiliar computer makes it even more challenging (see previous blog). Hope you find this a bit better on the eyes. I noticed all my followers have disappeared and I have NO idea why, so please come back!!!!!

I am also trying to insert photos, but I downloaded them on Charlie's computer, so I'll have to do that again on James' AGH! Does anyone have any tips? I did download a stock photo as a trial, so that part I've figured out. Now I just have to find my photos. How can this machine be smarter than me....oh well, I guess that's an easy one! Can't get spellcheck to work, so forgive me if I've missed any errors.

Love to all,
Lari

Charlie's computer crash

Hi All,
I have just made the blog private - it was public which meant anyone could access it, but I am not sure now if this will affect any of you getting into it. If you can't access this one, let me know. As you can see by the title, Charlie has had a massive computer failure with no explanation. While just being plugged in, but not even on the internet, his screen started to blink and the computer started to cycle on and off in a strange way. Suddenly, it just died, and we could get no further than the message that tells you to restart in safe mode, which we couldn't do. He thinks the boot sector failed and without all the discs and software, it wouldn't do any good to try and repair it here, even if we did have a reliable computer guy. So we are all sharing James' laptop, but my frustration level is really high, as who remembers all those passwords and user IDs that are normally automatic? So I can't access business e-mail but have gotten into hotmail and enjoyed your messages.
Re the blog, I had spent about 3 hours writing 2 blogs about our trip to Byblos, one of the world's oldest continually occupied cities, on Word. I saved it to send once I had internet access (we share that too and Huda was using the modem), but now it is gone as I can't get into Charlie's documents. Oh well, I'll try and rewrite it today or tomorrow.
Last night, I met a man named Anwar Reyes from Pennsylvania. He's in Beirut taking care of his 92 year old father. Anwar is an extremely talented piano player and singer who is performing in one of Lebanon's nicest restaurants. Hugo (remember, he's Frances' husband, she's the British Ambassador here) accompanies Anwar on guitar a few nights a week and invited us to come down last night, which we did and had a really nice evening and another fabulous dinner, this time French. Anyway, Reyes was my grandfather's surname and it is very likely that Anwar and I are distant cousins.....imagine! He said the Reyes family is a large Lebanese family, so I may end up finding some connection to both of my grandparents while here. Wow! Anwar and I will talk again soon and I hope to get more informaiton on his branch of the US Reyes family and maybe do some backtracking from that angle. Now what are the chances I would meet Anwar? Amazing. I do believe I am here to find my family ties!
Still not sure what day we will return as we are waiting for Emirates to confirm flights, so stay tuned.
The boat project is going really well, and the extra two weeks should get the boat almost completely wired, down to the outlets and lighting. Charlie is really enjoying working with James and vice versa, making for a really smooth process.
I hope to get the Byblos blog done soon. Tomorrow, we are off to Baalbek, another ancient city and a World Heritage site. The girls and I went to the Lebanese National Museum yesterday, which contains many beautiful artifacts from Byblos, Baalbek, Beirut, Tyre and other Lebanese sites. The oldest are about 2 million years old and nearly every major civilization since the Stone Age is represented. I loved it, the girls were ready to go to the mall after about 20 minutes - ah youth!
Love to all,
Lari

Monday, July 27, 2009

Weekends in Lebanon

Hi All,
Sorry it’s been a few days between blogs but the weekends here get very busy. Socializing in this part of the world is a necessity, like food and shelter. Lebanese love to party and are rarely on time…..two traits of mine that I now realize are just part of my DNA!!!!! And weekends are for enjoying friends, going out, staying up really late (we’re not doing too much of that one) and looking good.

I have learned from the local Lebanese friends we’ve made that the Lebanese are all about appearances. They spend a fortune on designer clothes, big, expensive jewelry, large houses, hot cars (more Porsches, Rovers, Bentleys, Ferraris and Mercedes here than even Southern CA!) and big parties – even if they don’t have a cent! The women, who are truly beautiful naturally, wear tight, low cut outfits with high, high heels – even to the supermarket - no matter what their age, shape or weight. Wristwatches are about the size of Big Ben. Big hair, big lips, big boobs – often enhanced artificially – are the norm. Lebanon has more plastic surgeons than any other country and is proud of its reputation as THE place to get “work” done. (Say, maybe this is my golden opportunity; right now I think I am the only woman in Lebanon without Grand Canyon cleavage!!!)

Restaurants are the size of a football field, room after room of tables, serving hundreds of diners at a time. Dinner is late – often starting at 10 p.m. and going for hours. Kids are part of the festivities and they just fall asleep at the table when they get tired.

Weddings are the best parties, starting with a huge church ceremony which is followed by a long car procession to the reception. The bride and groom ride in a decorated car and the bride usually stands up through the sunroof and waves at the onlookers along the way. The reception will last all night, literally, with food, drinks, Arabic music and dancing until well past sunrise. There are always fireworks, the big ones like we see at 4th of July, usually twice or 3 times during the evening. Everyone dresses to the nines – black tie for men, sequined gowns, stiletto heels, flashy jewelry and of course, the 3 Bigs for the women. We can see and hear a popular restaurant from our bedroom and the music was still playing at 8:30 a.m.

This past weekend we had a special treat, meeting a terrific Lebanese family, the Mardellis, and their friends for lunch at their flat in the hills overlooking Beirut. In another wonderful small world story, when a friend of mine from our condo complex in St. Pete, Judy Johnson, heard I was going to Lebanon, she told me about two teenagers from Lebanon, Hilda and Joe, who lived with her family in CT for several years while they were in college. They had escaped Lebanon during the civil war, but the ship they were on was bombed near Cyprus. They finally made it to the US after about 4 months, and lived with an uncle in CT for awhile. When that situation changed, Judy and her husband took them in and they were able to finish college. Hilda met and married her husband Adel in the US. He was at MIT and is now a Civil Engineer for a large multinational company in Lebanon. She is also an Engineer, and they have three adorable daughters.

Judy gave me Hilda’s e-mail before we left the States and we communicated and made plans to get together here. So, long story, long, we went to lunch Saturday at their lovely flat which overlooks Beirut and the Mediterranean. Lunch was in the garden and Adel’s uncle and his wife and 2 kids were visiting from Montreal, Canada and Adel’s best friend and his wife were visiting from Saudi Arabia so it was quite a party. We had another wonderful Lebanese feast with many of the foods I’ve described earlier, hummos, fresh, crisp salata (salad with olive oil and lemon dressing), kafta kebabs, warm pita, olives, nuts, yummy grilled beef and chicken shish kabobs, and fatayeh – which are small dough pockets filled with spinach or meat or cheese. Each filling has a different shape. My mom used to make these and memories of her rolling the dough and shaping the individual pies came flooding back at first taste.

Thick, dark Lebanese coffee, served in espresso sized cups, followed. Unlike Turkish coffee, you add your own sugar, but never milk or cream. I am beginning to realize how the Lebanese can stay up so late, it’s the caffeine! Then dessert! We had stopped at a wonderful Lebanese bakery on the way and bought a rich strawberry torte and a huge pot of Lebanese ice cream.

I have to tell you about this ice cream. I tasted it the other night when Walid and Shiron (remember them from the cherry orchard?) came by the Stone’s one evening last week and stayed for dinner. Walid had brought this light brown clay pot filled with a creamy white substance topped with a few pistachios. (I thought he had made it himself, but no, that’s the way you buy it, pot and all). In it was ice cream that is truly the creamiest, most delicious I have ever had. It is a thick cream base, flavored with a little rose water and a type of tree sap called mestique (sp????), which is used like a sugar in the ice cream. At first bite, I remembered that flavor from my early, early childhood and haven’t had it since. What a wonderful discovery. I can buy the mestique here to bring home!

Anyway, back to the Mardelli’s. Charlie and I brought a big pot of this ice cream, and Hilda had made a chocolate cake, a yummy blueberry cheesecake tart and someone else brought a huge ice cream cake…..so the table looked like a pastry case had exploded on it! Well, we did some damage, but nothing like the 7 kids did. No wonder they have so much energy…..

After the ritually stuffing was completed (Charlie says it’s a Lebanese tradition to measure you for a funnel when you arrive in the country, insert it in your mouth and continue to fill it with delicious food the entire time you are here…..I agree), we sat around the garden and talked for a few more hours. It was again fascinating to hear about life in Lebanon, but also in Saudi Arabia for a young American couple of Lebanese birth.

Here’s the big news. I may have a family/ancestral connection through Adel’s business partner. He is an Alkhazin and his family has records and documents tracing the family’s lineage. As I mentioned, the family is still very prominent here and is one of the oldest and wealthiest families, at one time owning much of central and northern Lebanon. I was teased about being a possible Sheika (female Sheik) and owner of half of the country. If I’d known all of this, I’d have been here years ago!!!!! Of course, I made everyone bow and scrape to the Sheika – yeah, like that happened! Anyway, I spoke with his partner on the phone and we’re going to get together this week! Keep those fingers crossed!

Judy, thank you, thank you, thank you for hooking us up with Hilda and Joe.

As the sun was setting, Huda, James, Charlie and I piled all 7 kids into the SUV and headed to the mall to see the new Harry Potter movie. Movies are universal and all the first run movies from the US open here about a week later and have both Arabic and French subtitles. It was almost surreal sitting in a movie theater in Beirut watching Harry, Hermione and Ron prepare to fight Voldemort. Makes me appreciate how small the world really is.

After dropping off the kids that weren’t coming home with us, we headed up the mountain. Traffic was worse than ever as this is the real start of the tourist season here. August is the busiest month for tourists and about 5 million tourists are expected this season. When you consider the population of the entire country is only 4 million, that’s mind boggling. Most tourists come from the Arab countries or are Lebanese who live elsewhere and return for vacation. This year, Ramadan begins in late August, so most Muslim visitors will stay until then.

Sunday, the British Ambassador to Lebanon and her husband, Hugo, a French documentary film maker came up for lunch. They have been close friends of Huda and James since Frances was Ambassador to Yemen several years ago. They have two children, James and Nina. Nina and Nadine and Dina are great friends and Nina had been staying here or the girls had gone to her house every night last week. James and his friend, Kevin, came along and the kids spent the day doing whatever teenagers do everywhere – hanging out.

Later, the Stone’s Lebanese partner, George and his family stopped by and we all spent a lovely afternoon in the garden. Hugo plays guitar and had his 12-string with him so we had our own private entertainer! Frances is a marathon runner as well as a diplomat and has had postings all over the Middle East in her career with the British Foreign Service. Man, am I feeling dull! Although everyone seems to be really interested in who we are and what we’ve done, especially our cruising adventure. Later, we zoomed down the mountain to see the Moscow Circus at the Casino du Liban and traffic Sunday was worse than Saturday. I have a feeling this will be a growing trend.

Looks like we’ll be staying another 2 weeks; returning home sometime during the week of August 17-21. We’re trying to change tickets now, but the internet is not available so it’s been challenging. I might be asking some of you to make a couple of phone calls for me to cancel some appointments if I can’t get online in the next day or two.

We’re well except for the constant ear issue with going from sea level to 6000 feet in 45 minutes twice a day or more. My body is never sure where it is, frankly. But after the face lift, tummy tuck and silicon injections, it won’t be my body anyway!!!!

Love to all,
Lari

Thursday, July 23, 2009

Meeting Walid, eating cherries and saj

Hi All,
To continue our journey through the mountains, and in search of the illusive remaining Cedars of Lebanon. There is a large, old growth cedar grove that is a national preserve around here somewhere, but we seem to turn the opposite way at each intersection so we have yet to find this forest. Apparently, these trees are huge, like redwoods, and were used by the Phoenicians for ships, and exported throughout the known world until deforestation occurred. But more on that when we finally get to the Chouf Cedar Preserve some other day.
Our next village was Lalouk, another ski area in winter and small, somewhat ordinary town the rest of the year, known mostly for its cherry orchards. We were pretty sure we had completely missed the Cedars, so we decided to head toward the coast and stop along the way for a late lunch. The roads in this area are mostly paved, two lanes wide, no markings, few directional signs and those that exist are in Arabic, and somewhat bumpy. Having no map (!!!!), we weren’t exactly sure which road to take as we approached a four way crossroads, which suddenly had two cars approaching from the opposite direction at some speed. One, a PT Cruiser convertible, top down and jammed with 4 adults and 4 kids, stopped and the driver asked James in English if we were Americans. He said, “Yes, some of us are,” at which point we were invited to follow the driver and the car behind him to his house nearby, as his grandmother’s cherry trees were bursting with sweet fruit and he wished to share it with us. Of course we didn’t hesitate to follow this total stranger we just met at a rural intersection up ever narrowing and serpentine roads to his house…..motivated in no small way because he assured us he had a much needed bathroom we could use!
He said the house was 5 minutes away – Lebanese time, naturally – so about 15 minutes later we arrived at a modest house on a hilltop, surrounded by cherry trees. After introducing ourselves, our host is Walid Almaazi, and partaking of his most generous bathroom offer, we climbed a small hill to the orchard and started picking incredibly sweet cherries from the trees, eating until we couldn’t move. Charlie even engaged the girls in a seed spitting contest, wanting to share an important piece of American culture with the group.
The home belongs to Walid’s family, who has been there for generations. He is currently opening franchises of Foot Solutions shoe stores around the Middle East and planning the first Lebanon store launch in Beirut. His wife, Shiron, is Palestinian, and they have only been married since March. She is a business consultant in Dubai. The rest of the PT Cruiser occupants are friends and family, returning from a swim in the Mediterranean. The other car’s occupants are a famous Lebanese singer and her husband, who also were stopped by Walid on the road and invited to the orchard. They only stayed a short time and we didn’t remember their names, unfortunately.
I was able to talk with Walid about my Lebanese ancestry and he told me the Al Khazin family is a large, prominent, well-connected Lebanese family with a Cabinet Minister and Member of Parliament. “They are like the Kennedy’s in the US,” he said. Whoa! How do I find these people? He promised to ask his uncle, a retired Lebanese Army general who is an ancestry buff if he could assist.
After an hour or so of chatting, eating a ton of cherries, spitting seeds, politely declining coffee and asking for a restaurant recommendation, we followed Walid to a small roadside stand that contained a tiny grocery – maybe 4-5 shelves and a fridge –and a saj maker. Okay, time for another delicious treat I remember from my childhood, but have never eaten freshly made. Saj or manaqeesh is a handmade crepe-like treat filled with jibneh (a mild white soft cheese) or zaatah (a Lebanese spice made with oregano, sumac and a few mystery ingredients) in olive oil.
The proprietor, a friend of Walid’s, and I was beginning to wonder who wasn’t a friend of this gregarious guy, makes the saj in the traditional way. She takes the dough and forms it into balls, the size of a tennis ball. Then, with cigarette hanging from her lips, she works the dough in her hands until it is a flat circle about the size of a large dinner plate. She takes a round pillow, the size of the dough, and places the dough on the pillow, then slaps it, in one quick stroke, onto a domed cooker which is a charcoal brazier with a domed lid. As the dough quickly cooks, she starts the next saj, then returns to the hot dome and spreads your choice of filling onto the browning dough. I had half jibneh, half zaatah. She carefully removed the saj, rolled it with waxed paper and passes it to you. OMG, it was sooooo good!
We dragged plastic tables and chairs across the road to catch the sun, plates of fresh tomatoes, cucumber and mint appeared and we sat, ate, talked and watched the assortment of vehicles roll by – soldiers, more friends of Walid, weathered farmers on tractors and a guy in a car/wreck with no windshield, one door, and a rust exterior – I have photos.
After our lunch respite (about 4 p.m.), we followed Walid down the mountains toward the coast. Good thing, too, as it was circuitous route, with lots of forks, turns and crossroads. We all agreed we would have taken several wrong roads if left on our own. We passed through several small, picturesque villages, but since Walid apparently went to the same nascar-style driving course as James, we only saw blurry images whiz by the car windows. We reached the coast near Byblos in time for rush hour, and worked our way home through the stroke-inducing traffic. As a treat for making it almost up the mountain without need of an ambulance, we stopped for gelato to top off our amazing day.
Can you imagine anything remotely like this happening in the US? I feel a bit like we are cruisers again – the same friendly, open people welcoming us into their lives, even for just a few hours as we pass through.
Can’t thank you all enough for the great feedback. I did see almost all of your comments finally showing up on the blog, so keep them us, but send me e-mails too! Looks like we might be staying another week as the boat projects keep multiplying and I keep encouraging Charlie to work as slowly as possible!

Love to all,
Lari

Wednesday, July 22, 2009

Over the Mountains and Through the Woods

Hi Everyone,

We’re about to leave for Byblos, thought to be the world’s oldest continuously occupied city and the birthplace of the modern alphabet. But Charlie and James are talking “boat” so we might be here a while.

Last week we took a wonderful drive over the mountains toward the Bekaa Valley. From the Stone’s chalet (palace) in Faqra, it’s a short drive to Lebanon’s most popular ski resort – Faraya Mzaar. Actually, you can see the lift from their garden. In winter, this entire area is covered in snow, and the skiing, snow boarding and snowmobiling is great. Now, the area is a tapestry of tan and green, with the valleys and hillsides lush with fruit and nut trees, vegetable gardens and flowers.

We piled in the car and headed to the resort area to look around; stopping at this amazing natural stone bridge that you would swear was man-made it is so perfect and passing ancient Greek temple ruins – which we can see from the chalet! There, among these serrated, razor-thin rock formations stand six Corinthian columns fronting stone temple walls. Dedicated to Adonis, the temple is fronted by a large rectangular court cut from the natural rock, flanked by two altars. A smaller temple is nearby, along with rock-cut tombs and a stone tower rebuilt by the Roman Emperor Claudius in 43AD. All of this sits next to the road, surrounded by a chain link fence, but with an open gate and no guard. You can wander the ruins at will. Unfortunately, many of the ruins throughout Lebanon have been destroyed by war, lack of concern, construction or ignorance. In Lebanon’s history, it has been inhabited since the Stone Age and conquered and reconquered numerous times. Always desirable for its seaports, cedar trees and location, the country was a prize for each new invader. More on that in a later blog.

I am totally overwhelmed with the beauty and history of this country and a bit sad that I have known so little about my ancestral roots for most of my life. For those of you who still have parents and grandparents….get them to tell you this stuff! I have found out that my grandmother’s family is a large and well-known Lebanese family. Currently, there is an Al Khazin (Americanized to Alkazin) in the Lebanese Parliament and another is a Minister in the Cabinet. (Hey, way better than being scofflaws or pita peddlers). I am trying to get more details and possibly make a contact. Also found out the family is from very near here, so that should help me pinpoint my search. Gosh, it would be so amazing to find a relative here!

So, we continued on our journey through the mountains. After leaving the developed area of ski resorts, the mountains became bleak, rocky and seemingly barren. Suddenly, from nowhere, a Bedouin shepherd appeared with his herd of black and white sheep and a scruffy sheepdog that was definitely in charge of the whole mob. They slowly crossed the road, sheep wandering here and there until the dog gave them “the look” and they continued up the other hillside. The shepherd, in traditional Bedouin robes, could have come from a thousand years before. The nomad Bedouins pitch tents in these barren mountain highlands during the warmer months while their herds graze on scrub and meager vegetation. The only signs of modernism are an occasional tractor and water tank that we reckoned they moved with them using the tractor. Not sure where they find water or fuel or food, but we saw laundry hanging and an older woman washing clothes in a large bucket. (Yes, I have photos – and no, I still haven’t learned how to load them).

There were a few armed Lebanese check points along the road as we neared the Bekaa Valley, which is a Hezbollah stronghold. We have two advantages at a checkpoint – if it’s good strategy to be English speaking and not understand Arabic and the soldiers’ questions (playing dumb, so to speak), we do that. If it’s better to engage in conversation with them in Arabic, we do that. James is great at playing the confused American tourist and we have a very hard time trying to keep straight faces as he massacres Arabic phrases. Of course, the loaded M-16’s are a strong motivation to behave. So far, we have found the soldiers to be friendly and helpful. The road we were on also goes to Syria, another reason for the checkpoints, but we stayed well away from any uncertain areas and decided to avoid going into the Bekaa Valley and Baalbek, its historic center, due to a large military presence on the road into the valley.

Instead we headed further into the mountains and down into the Adonis Valley, a deep, jagged slice in the mountains formed by the Nahr Ibrahim River. We discovered this entire area was a pilgrimage route and is dotted with monasteries, churches, grottoes and ancient remains. One temple is made from granite from the Pharonic-era quarries at Aswan in Egypt. The stone’s journey down the Nile, across the desert to the Lebanese coast, then up the steep valley solidifies the temple’s importance. Although Constantine destroyed the temple, its remains are still believed to have healing powers by both Christians and Muslims, who continue to tie strips of cloth to a nearby fig tree as part of an ancient ritual.

Almost around the next curve, we spotted a cross high atop a thin, jagged peak. A small building appeared, then a series of steep steps, which snaked up the side of the cliff. We discovered this was the famous Mar Butros (St Peter) church above the village of Aaqoura, thought to be the first Lebanese village to convert to Christianity. Aaqoura, a small village perched on the mountainside, has 42 churches and is a pilgrimage center for Christians who climb to Mar Butros each year.

In my next blog, our encounter with Walid and his family at a rural intersection and how it turned into a wonderful afternoon in his cherry orchard and my first taste of Saaj. And have I described Jallab yet? It’s a delicious cold drink of date syrup and rose water, filled with almonds, pistachios and pine nuts, which you eat with a spoon when you’ve finished the drink. Yum!!!!!

Sorry some of you are having trouble sending comments, but just send them to my email and I’ll get them that way. I love hearing from you!

Love to all,

Lari

Sunday, July 19, 2009

Food!

How to begin describing the fabulous Lebanese - and Yemen - food I've stuffed myself with since arriving. Not being committed to working during the day like Charlie, I can spend all day with Huda and the girls shopping, sightseeing and, of course, eating! It was my great fortune to grow up with a Lebanese mother who loved to cook the same Lebanese dishes for me that she grew up eating. So I was eating hommus, tabbouleh, kibbi, stuffed grape leaves, pita (we call it Syrian bread), baklava and all of the wonderful Middle Eastern dishes long before they became popular and available in the US. Having that as my "baseline" so to speak, my quest here is to see if anyone can top my Mom's cooking.
When you eat Lebanese style, you usually have Mezze, which means lots of small dishes of food (sort of like tapas). I'll describe last night's dinner, but first the day. Huda, James, Charlie and I had a great day, which started with a traditional Yemen breakfast of Foul - a dish of foul beans, tomatoes, onion, garlic and Yemeni spices, slightly mashed and served hot, with scambled eggs, pita bread and always a huge plate of fresh veggies, followed by fresh fruit.
After that gut busting beginning, we visited Jeita Grotto, one of the new seven wonders of the world - it is a mammoth cave filled with the most amazing stalagtites, stalagmites, columns, underground river, pools, and exotic formations, some that sparkle, some look like marble, others alabaster. It is beautifully lit to showcase the beauty of nature and a concrete path/bridge takes you far into the cave. Sadly, no photos are allowed and Charlie saw one man get kicked out because he tried to take a photo. You reach the mouth of the upper cave by cable car. After your walking tour there, you take a short train ride to the lower cave and take a very short boat ride in the underground river. We expected our boat driver to provide a little info, but he just held on to the tiller in silence. Luckily Huda and James have been about a zillion times and were great tour guides!
After we left the grotto, we stopped at a fresh produce stand where Huda felt it was her duty to empty the stall and transfer everything into the back of the SUV. I took photos! I must tell you the fruit and veggies are the best I have ever had - crisp, flavorful, perfectly rippened - say, did you know tomatoes have flavor???? Fresh figs, cherries, melons, apricots, peaches.....sigh.
I learned how to open and eat a fresh almond. From the tree they are green and the size of an apricot. You bite the outside, which is a little fuzzy and slightly soft, to crack it, then open it with your hands, remove the outer skin, inner skin and voila! you have a sweet, blazing white almond. I may never eat another roasted one....but then, the nuts here are amazing too - varieties and preparations I have never seen anywhere. (Yes, I have been on the scale, and no, the news is not good!)
Okay, after the produce was loaded by forklift into the car, we were off to an early dinner/late lunch back up the mountain. Here's what we had - some words may ot be familiar so I'll try to describe. Hommus, baba ghannough (roasted eggplant hummos), lebne (a thick yogurt/cheese - tart and smooth), raw and cooked kibbi (lamb with bulghur and spices), tabbouleh (parsley/mint/tomato/scallion salad with lemon and olive oil), fattoush (green salad with toasted pita), kibabs (variety of meats, ground and formed into long rolls) with roasted whole onions and tomatoes, a huge plate of fresh veggies with a huge whole tomato, half head of cabbage (so sweet it tasted like it was soaked in sugar), half head of romaine, thin, crisp cucumbers, yellow, red and green peppers, green onions, and a huge bunch of mint. Maybe that was it, but I'm sure I've forgotten something. The table was loaded!!!! So were we. James and I smoked shisha first, which is the tradition. Shisha is flavored tobacco (ours was apple) in a water pipe - better to look it up than have me try to describe it - but you each get a mouthpiece, then share the shisha pipe, passing it back and forth. When you inhale, the water bubbles in the bottom of the device. You and the tobacco never meet, it stays at the top on this tall device witha few pieces of charcoal to heat it. The "shisha guy" comes by to tend the charcoal and replenish tobacco if needed.
So after we rolled out of the restaurant, we came home to change for our big evening out. We had tickets to Dance Fever, a wonderful stage show with dancers, a variety of entertainers and a Cirque du Soliel strong man duo. Best of all, the show was at Casino di Liban, a glitzy complex with gambling, showrooms, clubs and restaurants, perched on a hillside with a view of Beirut that was breathtaking. The Lebanese love to party, entertain and stay up very late. As we drove back up the mountain toward home about midnight, every restaurant (and they are huge) was jammed, cars parked 3 and 4 deep, some actually in the road! Dinner at midnight is normal. Hmmm, maybe I would be really skinny here if I had to stay up that late for dinner. We stopped on the way home to eat again!
Anyway, no one has topped my Mom yet, but I've olnly been here a week, so there are many more tabboulehs to taste!
Thanks to all of you who have responded and let me know you are getting and enjoying these blogs. I have learned so much already about lifestyle here, the Middle East, the wars here and how we are perceived as a country. I am still looking for my relatives and found out my grandmother's family is a large, important family in Lebanon, just wish I knew even one family connection here to track down. Oh well, I'll keep trying. I see my mother and my aunts in the women here, many of the traits and facial expressions and the way they speak Arabic look exactly like what I remember. (Found out Lebanese Arabic is very different from other countries, sort of like someone from Maine and someone from Georgia wouldn't sound the same).
We are about to have a party here, a housewarming, so I'll run. Keep reading....oh, and we may stay another week depending on boat progress. I keep encouraging Charlie to slow down, slow waaaaaay down.
Love to all,
Lari

Thursday, July 16, 2009

Lebanese Hospitality

Hi Everyone,
The guys are showering from their long day on the boat, I survived the 4-wheeler ride - even drove the beast, although I kept hitting the side of the cliff, but not bad for my first time. At least we stayed in Lebanon and upright. Anyway, thought it might be a good time to write another installment....but now everyone is coming down for dinner, so I'll stop for now and continue after everyone goes to bed. Hope you are getting these - thanks, Frank for letting me know you've received - hugs, Lari

Driving in Lebanon

Hi from Faqra, Lebanon!
Last night I made a list of blog topics along with all the things we've done in just 3 days and it was really long! We have been busy. But I have to tell you about the driving in Lebanon, especially Beirut. It is like nothing we have ever experienced anywhere...even the Italians look tame compared to the driving here. Charlie and I would still be in the driveway if we were at the wheel!
First rule: ignore all rules. Second rule: go as fast as you can at all times. Third rule: Other vehicles are to be passed, no matter what. Fourth rule: the entire road is yours - both sides. Fifth rule: there really are no rules.
James follows every rule! Huda is slightly more conservative, I can keep my eyes open! Traffic is incredible, like an LA freeway in rush hour run amok, with no lanes, speed limits or fear of dying. (I am the only one experiencing that!) Cars drive 3 and 4 abreast, pass constantly and if there is even an inch of space, a driver will somehow maneuver his car into it. Everyone has the right of way at every intersection, roundabouts are a free-for-all and stoplights - the few that work - are usually ignored unless there is a policeman there, who is usually directing everyone to go at once anyway. Motorbikes (forget helmets - not macho) speed in and out of lanes, zipping through the cars and trucks like gnats.
Remarkably, there is no road rage. We would be screaming and cursing constantly at the insane drivers trying to kill us....but here, it's normal to pass on curves, cut each other off, park in the middle of the road and never, ever make eye contact with another driver (if I don't see you, you aren't there). And we've seen a few fender benders, but no major accidents. Most cars - and there are very expensive models and beaters here - are dent free. So this system seems to work, but I have no idea how. Good brakes, and possibly large doses of controlled substances.
Crossing the street is equivalent to having a death wish! Pedestrians have no rights, in fact, I think it becomes a sport to aim at the poor human trying to get across the street. And the drivers give us "the look" as we run, screaming, across the road.
I seriously doubt either of us will get behind the wheel while here, but I have to go now and learn how to drive a four-wheeler from a 12 year old and a 14 year old. Say a prayer for me!
Love,
Lari

Tuesday, July 14, 2009

We are in Lebanon!

Hi All!
We made it successfully to Lebanon as scheduled, arriving about 3 a.m. Sunday morning. The flight from JFK to Dubai was about 13 hours, every seat was full, but we managed to sleep a little, watch a few movies and drink lots of water. We flew over the Atlantic, crossing Europe beginning at the coast of France. Once we were over the Arabian Peninsula, we flew over miles and miles of desolate terrain, rugged, uninhabited and the color of cafe au lait. Our route took us between Iran on the left side and Iraq on the right....made me very glad we were on Emirates, less likely to meet an errant missile, I presumed! Looking at the landscape, thousands of feet below, made me wonder why this part of the world, which looks so barren and lifeless, has been the site of so much war and hostility for thousands of years. We landed in Dubai on time, and were thermal scanned for swine flu as we left the aircraft, that was a first.

The 4 hour layover in Dubai gave us a chance to wander through the world's largest Duty Free shop (the entire terminal!) and have a lovely dinner courtesy of Emirates Air. Shops full of 22K gold jewelry, Rolex and Piaget watches, perfume, liquor, clothing, food, $700 bottles of wine and caviar lined the concourse. Two Zen gardens with waterfalls, 3 spas and 16 sit down restaurants and two Prayer Rooms (men's and women's) fill the terminal. There was the Islam call to prayer while we were there, and we watched the men head one way and the women the other for prayer. Wish I'd taken a photo of the sign that said Restrooms and Prayer Rooms, not likely to see that again.

We opted to stay at the airport as it was 98 degrees and 100% humidity outside. I don't recommend Dubai as a vacation destination in July. Our flight to Lebanon took off at 1 a.m. - also jammed, apparently there is no recession in the Middle East - and landed about 20 minutes late, but as soon as I stepped off the jetway and actually stepped onto Lebanon, I felt like a part of me was home. Amazing.

We cleared Immigration and I actually got two Lebanon visa stamps in my passport after I told the inspector that coming to Lebanon was a lifelong dream come true. He wanted to be sure I could read the stamp!

Our hosts met us with roses, water, hugs and kisses at 4 a.m.! The entire family came to the Airport, James and Huda and their daughters Nadine and Dina. The drive to their home in the mountains northeast of Beirut took about 45 minutes and at this hour, there wasn't much traffic as you can imagine. Beirut looked beautiful, at least what I could see, and we talked and laughed non-stop the entire way home, becoming instant friends. It's as if we've known each other for years in some ways. We already felt so welcome....how the heck did we get so lucky?

Then we arrived at their new chalet - and we about fainted. As we drove into the 5000 sq ft garage through beautiful teak doors - the garage is tiled and finished - we knew we were in for something special. Forget every chalet you've ever seen, this is not a chalet, it's a palace! Perched on a hillside with the Mediterranean off in the distance, the house is an architectural masterpiece. Made of concrete faced in Lebanese stone, the 15,000 sq ft. home has 4 floors, floor to ceiling half rounded glass walls on the living and sleeping levels, more rooms than I can remember, fabulous wood, tile, marble and stone floors, walls and ceilings, glass and stainless steel staircases, bathrooms that are not to be believed, a kitchen I covet, lovely gardens with a stream, several patios and a spa, custom furnishings, gorgeous decor, OMG! James designed it and Huda decorated it - the house actually floats on a central column, with....shoot, I can't begin to do justice to the house by describing it, so I'll send photos as soon as I figure out how. Just know our jaws hit the floor upon entering and might still be dragging the floor a bit! Even in my state of jet lag euphoria, I wasn't prepared for this! Wow! Our room is huge, its rounded exterior glass wall looking toward the Med and valley view, large bath, king bed, sitting area, and a loft! It's beautiful!

We stayed up until well past sunrise talking to James and Huda and when we finally went to bed about 8 a.m. Sunday, we had been up since Friday morning. Our travel time from our house in St. Pete to their house in Farqa was 41 hours! We slept until about 6 p.m. Sunday. Then awoke to find this really wasn't a dream, we were still in Lebanon in this gorgeous home with these warm, generous people. Whoooo hooo!

Much more to come. We've already had encounters and experiences in just 2 days that will fill about 3 more blogs. I'll close this one by saying my first impressions are that Lebanon is beautiful, friendly, welcoming and exciting. There is as much new construction here - homes, buildings, hotels, public spaces, marinas, condos - as there was in FL and much of the US in 2004-2006. The economy is strong, prices are high and people are enjoying life here. You wouldn't know there had been a war 3 years ago and a civil war that raged for nearly 20 years from the 70's-90's by looking at what's happening here now. We have encountered check points along more rural roads, especially those leading directly to Syria, and all cars are stopped and inspected before entering parking garages, but other than that, there are no outward signs of previous wars - no damaged buildings, barracades or soldiers in the streets. We feel very safe here.

And we have already learned much about our hosts, their life in Yemen and here, so I have much more to share. Stay tuned. Hope this arrives okay, we have experienced a little trouble with e-mails getting out on this computer. Please send me an e-mail when you read this.
Thanks!
Love,
Lari

Friday, July 10, 2009

Today's the Day! Off to Beirut

Friday, July 10, 2009

Well, since it's after midnight, it is now officially the day we depart for Lebanon. Naturally, all my plans to be packed in advance, leaving this last evening at home to relax before the 10,678 hour flight (or so it may seem by 2:40 a.m. Sunday morning when we arrive in Beirut) were for naught! Although most everything is in the luggage, there's still much to do before we hop in the airport limo at noon. I'm sure I'll continue to wander around the house moving little piles of things here and there before I'm exhausted enough to sleep.

Our journey begins on a Jet Blue flight from Tampa to JFK. We arrive at 5 p.m. and because this domestic leg of the trip, for some international trade reason, couldn't be booked from Yemen as part of our overall ticket, it is not a connecting flight. Yep, we'll have to claim our bags, schlep them to the international terminal, go through security again (agh), check in, then wait until our 2300 departure. Well, at least we have lots of time to kill and this should take care of a few hours! Apparently JFK was closed on Wed. for several hours due to turtles on the runway. Man, those terrapin terrorists will stop at nothing!

Next leg is the loooonng one - JFK to Dubai, UAE - about 14 hours. Oh if I only had the extra $9000 per person to upgrade to business class.....seriously, $9000!!!! I want to peek through the curtain to see who does have the $9K!

We arrive in Dubai at 1945 on Saturday evening - Dubai is 8 hours ahead of St. Petersburg - and get to explore the fabulous Dubai airport for a few hours. Apparently it has the largest Duty Free shop in the world - oh dear! We leave for Beirut at 0020 on Sunday, July 12, arriving at 0240, but we gain an hour, so it's really 0340 Dubai time. Our gracious hosts will be waiting at the airport, so we're hoping Charlie's strange collection of tools - including a major wire crimper that just barely fit in the suitcase - won't create a crisis in Customs. Would be interesting trying to explain that at 3 a.m. after flying for 2 days!

The drive to their home in the mountains is about 90 minutes, I know I won't be seeing much!!! My guess is by about Tuesday we might be coherent!

Thanks to all of you who responded to the blog, joined, sent comments and wished us well on our adventure. I'm looking forward to Tuesday!

Stay tuned!
Sending with love,
Lari

Sunday, July 5, 2009

Lebanon Adventure - Preparation

Sunday, July 5, 20009

We leave for Beirut on Friday and our prep for the 3 week adventure has been intense. Besides the research on Lebanon, flight arrangements, getting business and personal stuff taken care of, deciding what to pack, new camera, etc. I have also been trying to track down my grandparents' ancestry. Both came through Ellis Island, but their names were either misspelled or totally different than the names I knew them by as a child.....hmmmmmm. Fortunately, my first cousins, Eleanor and Ann Marie had documents that helped us get to the first steps and we found the ships and dates they both arrived. But that's as far as I've gotten, as we don't have any documentation on where they lived in Lebanon (which was Syria back then). I've tried Ancestry.com but couldn't find anything there past my grandparents. Anyone have any suggestions? I'd love to visit the towns or villages where they were born, but doubt that after more than 100 years, I could begin to track down any family ties in Lebanon. But, you never know.
Since this is my first post, it's really a test to see if I know what I'm doing. If you decide to accept my invitation to the blog, I'll be thrilled. Not sure of the internet access where we are staying, as it is in the mountains, about 45 minutes from Beirut (near Faraya and Farqa if you Google Earth it), but I'll keep writing anyway!
Love to all,
Lari